If you want to really turn your partner on and make them want you, there’s an art to it that you really have to learn, if it doesn’t come naturally. It’s the art of seduction. For each person, this “art” will be just slightly different. After all, there really are no rules to art. Right?
Seduction is an art like poetry or dance. Its intent is to make a person feel unsatisfied–unsatisfied until he (or she) can have you.
The trick is to get inside your partner’s head. Find out what turns them on. Then do those things *subtly*. I could be wrong here, but I believe that the key word here is subtle. There’s nothing sexy about blatantly trying to get somebody to be turned on by you. The trick is all in way you do it.
For men and women, seduction has a lot to do with what we perceive we can’t have. It’s also a very individual thing. I know for me personally, I love to feel pursued. Not in a “stalker” kind of way, but in a “I-know-what-I-want-and-I-want-you” sort of way. Again, the trick is to get inside the persons head. Tease them a bit, and then slowly let their own desires take over. With a little bit of practice, you’ll have it down in no time.
Generally speaking, I believe that seduction involves a little of “taking your time”, and a whole lot of teasing.
What do you do to seduce your lover?
~Jane
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