Sex 2.0

myblackbookThere’s a new website out there – several in fact – to help you track your sex life.

Whether you struggle to remember if you like your sweet spot pounded in the master bedroom verses the top of the washer or you want to recall the finer details from the last time you did it doggy-style, websites like Bedpost and My Black Book are designed for you.

Bedpost launched in 2008 and while it’s still in beta, it has 900 members so far. My Black Book started in 2005 and has more than 15,000 users. And the founders behind Boffery are working to launch the sexual mapping program.

The websites promise users the ability to privately catalog sexual trysts, make statistical pie charts and track their risk assessments for certain diseases, among other things.   

I don’t anticipate that I’ll be signing up at one of these websites any time soon – besides, what’s the point of this blog if I can’t document my deeds here? But how many people are really going to sign up using their real names and post the intimate details of giving head or having anal sex on the stairs?

You thought it was bad when a government agency loses 400,000 social security numbers or your boss discovers you dissed her on your MySpace page three months ago. Let the world know you like whip cream slathered on the folds of your vagina and see how grandma greets you at the next family reunion.

I’ll definitely create an alias if I ever decide to jump on board with one of these websites, but I’m curious about what you think: has the web gone too far? Or should the Internet play a BIGGER role in our sex lives?




God Wants You to Have Sex – and Lots of it

I wonder if membership at Relevant Church in Tampa, Florida increased this year after pastor Paul Wirth challenged – strongly encouraged is more like it – married folks within his congregation to have sex for a consecutive 30 days.

(For singles, abstinence was the challenge).

I can hear husbands all over America now: “honey, pack up the car, we’re moving to Florida!”

Yikes – and I thought I was an awesome wife for dishing it out three days in a row – but 30? On the request of a pastor? A religious leader? Well, it’s no secret God performs miracles, I just didn’t expect it to include a healthy pro-sex message delivered during Sunday School.

The idea behind the 30-Day Sex Challenge is to help couples improve their relationships and rediscover themselves.

The exercises in the workbook help jazz up the bedroom life while enhancing the bond between man and wife.

Kudos to Relevant Church for launching a healthy conversation about a natural activity between married couples.  

We’re going to give the 30-Day Sex Challenge a shot here. I’ll keep you posted on how that goes. If you want to kick off your own 30 day challenge and post your thoughts along the way on our blog, pick up a copy of the book here — 30 day sex challenge: a journey to intimacy.


Are You A Submissive Wife?

bibleThe Bible says in Eph. 5:22 that wives should submit to their husbands. How do you feel about this? (Please comment below)

22 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. 24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.
a. I should do whatever he wants me to do. He has my best interest at heart.

b. I should do whatever he wants me to do, as long as it’s not morally or legally wrong.

c. I should do whatever he wants me to do, without question, no matter how wrong it may or may not be.d. I’m not Christian. I don’t believe in any of that

d. I do not believe wives should “submit to their husbands.

e. I think the concept was a practic at the time the bible was written, made it into the bible, and conveniently never made it’s way back out again.

f. Men should “submit” to women. The world would be a much better place.

What do you think? Do you have another view of this? What’s your opinion? Please leave a comment below.

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