Celebrity Fantasies

djdtI’m always curious which celebrities people fantasize about.

I mean, let’s face it. We’ve all done it. You’re in bed with your partner, and it just sort of pops into your head.

It can really make sex hot (as long as you don’t call out that celebrities name!).

It’s just so convenient to spice things up that way in your own mind.

What celebrities do you fantasize about and why? Do you think it helps your sex life?



Every Man’s Fantasy

Two Girls And A GuyIs it just me, or does every man fantasize about being with two women?

Even my own husband has asked me if I would consider bringing another woman into the bedroom.

While the jury is still out on my decision, I often wonder what it is about that particular fantasy that makes it such a universal one?

I don’t think I’ve ever met a man who would say, “eh, that’s not really for me. Thanks anyway.”

Perhaps it’s the thrill of watching two women pleasure each other, or maybe it’s the idea of having two women pleasuring the guy.  But why two? Why not 4 or 6 or 8?

Is it more intimate with 2? Or is it just that most men stop at two because it’s tough enough to get that many in bed at one time, without trying to add more?

I’ll keep you posted on my decision. For now, I’d love to hear from those of you who have tried it, or can shed some light on this mystery for me.


Butt, Butt, Butt…

ButtWhat ever happened to the days of Wrangler Butts? Is it just me, or has the “junk in the trunk” taken a back seat to other body parts lately?

Well, I’m here to say that I am a staunch admirer of a nice rear view. There’s nothing like a man who looks as good leaving as he does walking towards you. It’s one of the many things us women can enjoy about our men.

A nice butt is a work of art. Round and plump yet muscular and strong. The kind of butt that says “I could go all night long, baby”.

I’m sure there are a lot of men out there who love a nice toosh on a woman as well. I mean, lets face it. A butt is one of the few body parts that looks better with clothes on than with them off (Most of the time. Sometimes you just have to admire a butt without the coverage.).

So on your way to work (or the store, or wherever) today, stand up and take notice of the wonderful array of nice rear ends walking down the street. You’d be amazed at how many nice ones there are if you take the time to look.


The Art Of Seduction

The Art Of SeductionIf you want to really turn your partner on and make them want you, there’s an art to it that you really have to learn, if it doesn’t come naturally. It’s the art of seduction. For each person, this “art” will be just slightly different. After all, there really are no rules to art. Right?

Seduction is an art like poetry or dance. Its intent is to make a person feel unsatisfied–unsatisfied until he (or she) can have you.


The trick is to get inside your partner’s head. Find out what turns them on. Then do those things *subtly*. I could be wrong here, but I believe that the key word here is subtle. There’s nothing sexy about blatantly trying to get somebody to be turned on by you. The trick is all in way you do it.

For men and women, seduction has a lot to do with what we perceive we can’t have. It’s also a very individual thing. I know for me personally, I love to feel pursued. Not in a “stalker” kind of way, but in a “I-know-what-I-want-and-I-want-you” sort of way. Again, the trick is to get inside the persons head. Tease them a bit, and then slowly let their own desires take over. With a little bit of practice, you’ll have it down in no time.

Generally speaking, I believe that seduction involves a little of “taking your time”, and a whole lot of teasing.

What do you do to seduce your lover?



FetishThere are so many fetishes out there. Some are relatively minor and some go to very exaggerated extremes. While I can’t possibly go into every fetish there is, my goal with this post is to give you general information on what some of the fetishes are.

According to DearSugar.com, there are three types of fetishes:

  1. Media: The type of material or the way something feels is what’s obsessed over. Media fetishes include silk, feathers, fur, or leather.
  2. Form: The shape of the object is what’s important here. Long, skinny stiletto heels, knee-high boots, and flowy lingerie fall into this category.
  3. Animate: These types of fetishes have anything to do with human body parts. That includes breasts, buns, bellies, necks, hair, etc.

But then there are also the S&M type of fetishes. Fetishes where people like to experience a certain amount of pain or restraint during sex. Examples are:

The thing with fetishes is this: No fetish is bad, and just because the neighbors dog barking sends you into lustful fantasies, doesn’t mean you’re a complete perv.

But if your fetishes are hurting you or somebody else, or if they are somehow effecting your daily life or the daily life of another person, you most likely want to seek help. You definitly need help if your fetishes involve children or animals.

However, if it’s just you and your fetishes having a grand ol’ time and not hurting so much as a flea, then have at it! Fetishes can be fun, and they can certainly spice things up in the bedroom (or anywhere else you may be!).