Dealing With A Cheating Spouse

Cheating SpouseIf you’ve just found out your husband/wife is cheating on you, you are definitely in a world of hurt. The betrayal you feel shakes you to your core. There’s no way to deal with it, other than to just allow your emotions to surface and show themselves, no matter what they may be. No emotion or reaction is wrong. It just is.

But there are certain things you should NOT do when you find out. So be sure to cover yourself in that department. You need proof, a plan and a purpose (as stated in the linked article above)

Deciding to leave or stay is your own personal choice. Nobody can tell you that one or the other is wrong. Whatever choice you make for yourself, is the right choice. Don’t let anybody tell you anything different.

But please, make the the right choice for YOU. Don’t base it on this kids, or what family or friends will think. Make the right choice for you, and you alone. Because, in the end, the choice you make for yourself, will be the choice that is right for everybody, including the kids.

If you are a stay at home mom/dad, you have an even harder road ahead of you because you now have to return to the work force after being gone for so long. Your kids, being used to having you home, now have to stay with strangers all day if family can’t babysit. It’s tempting to stay just for the convenience of the situation. But again, make the right choice for you. If you want to stay, then stay, but seek counseling. If you want to leave, then leave. Life has a way of working itself out. If you can get through this, honey, you can get through anything!

I wish you the best of luck

~Jane

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