When Masturbation Replaces Partnered Sex

MasturbationMany many folks masturbate as a normal part of their lives. For quite a few, this is a normal part of every day life. 

In theory and in practice, there is generally nothing wrong with masturbation unless you have moral or religious issues with it. But there are instances where one partner can feel pushed aside due to the other partner preferring masturbation over sex with their significant other. If this is a concern, then this article could be very helpful.

While masturbation, in and of itself, won’t destroy a relationship, the replacing of regular partnered sex with masturbation can.

The key is to keep communication open. Find out why this is happening. Don’t accuse or blame, just investigate in a non-threatening way. If it really becomes a problem, seek the help of a qualified professional.

You have to remember, that there are emotional and “historical” reasons behind all of our sexual desires and preferences. Our lives shape who we are, not only in our every day lives, but in our sexual lives as well. It’s worth it to find out what’s happening, especially if it’s really becoming a problem in your relationship.

If you find yourself in need of a “friend”, I found a book that will help you choose a companion, and a toy that seems to be pretty good at “everything”.

Book: Vibrators: 100 of the Best Vibrators in the World $10.17 + Shipping

Toy: Doc Johnson Lucid Dream 14 Multi-Speed, Waterproof G-Spot Vibrator, Twist-bottom Control, Purple $13.81 + Shipping.

~ Jane

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2 Responses

  1. You have a great blog. I’ve use masturbation for many years. It has relieved me hundreds of times. My spouse is not very responsive to my needs and masturbation, rather than adultery has been my response to her. You can read about some of it on my blog ba3301.wordpress.com .

  2. Thanks for the comment as well as the compliment.

    Yes, masturbation can be a solution to a not-so-great sex life. I commend you for not cheating on your spouse. You’re a good person. Stay strong.

    Take care,
    ~Jane

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